I'm a married mother of 4, step to 2... In comparison to my family, weight wise I am doing pretty good. Most of the women in my family were much heavier than I am at my age. BUT.... I am not happy with where I am. People always said that once you get over 35 it's harder to lose and keep the weight off. Man they weren't kidding! I belong to a swim and fitness club, but with life, I haven't had time to go in two months. Every time I think I am going to make it to the gym at the beginning of the day, I look at my calendar and realize that I don't have time... Ugh! So with that said, it is my desire to eat healthier and try to get to the gym 3 days a week. I want to be in better shape come summer. Isn't that every woman's desire?