I can't imagine losing a son and then a daughter. I'm so sorry! my son died in 2015 and I still grieve every day. I miss him so much. please take the best care of yourself that you can. I've gained 30 pounds since my son's death. I just stopped caring. compassionate friends has helped. e a bit.
08 Aug 23 by member: Kay621
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I pray for continued strength. You have endured much. Continue to connect with others and try to focus on what makes you happy now. ✌🏼💜😊🙏🏽
08 Aug 23 by member: DsuezqD
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if I knew where you lived, I'd smother your dickhead husband in his sleep. I hate everything about him.
08 Aug 23 by member: davidsprincess
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I pray for your strength, I pray for your courage to seek help. You really need to see someone who specializes in grief counseling, if your husband won't go take a friend or go alone. Nobody has a right to take theor anger out on you, so please for the love of your children, plese seek help. I am more than happy to become pen pals, phone buddies, anything that will help you seek strength to get some help. You are oved and deserve to feel emptionally sound each day.It won't take away these sad events, but it will help you cope. Please reach out..please my prayers aren't enough without your acceptance.
08 Aug 23 by member: LosingAnne
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sorry for the typos, I was trying to get my thoughts out to help if I could.
08 Aug 23 by member: LosingAnne
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As a parent I can only imagine the horrible things you're having to live with each day I'm 😔 sorry. I understand the husband issue even though I have only been with mine for twenty one years he has untreated third stage bipolor and is also an alcoholic so can be very "challenging" to live with we are trying to work through our issues. Nothing like the stresses of losing your children, but rather that I empathize with the struggles that walking on eggshells when living with a person who's constantly angry brings. I see you... you're not alone... you are valuable... you are loved.
08 Aug 23 by member: Leah_guffey
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08 Aug 23 by member: lovelyday1973
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I’m praying for your strength and courage to go on with your life. I know you will see your children again one day. I’m praying for you to find joy in your elder years ( with or without your husband) and to know love. I’m praying that you get all the help and care you need. I’m pleading the blood of Jesus over your home and over your life. I’m pleading the blood of Jesus over your husband. I want you to know you are in my thoughts and my prayers and I will continue to pray for you.
08 Aug 23 by member: SunnyDayTonya
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That's such a heartbreaking story. Hugging you...
08 Aug 23 by member: 0gonek
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No one knows exactly how you feel...but you are not alone. May you find find just one moment of peace to sustain you today. Be gentle, kind and loving to yourself as you wait for the miracle you need to begin healing.
08 Aug 23 by member: shoregirl76
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God bless ya i to have lost ones i love to the acts of others.
08 Aug 23 by member: mountainman2
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I am so sorry for your loss. What a terrible tragedy.
08 Aug 23 by member: vixen28
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Tough day. Anniversaries are hard. The grief feels like the day it happened, only briefer.
08 Aug 23 by member: LadyinDenim
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I cannot imagine your pain and what you are going through. I agree with Anne,a grief counselor would help.
Sending you prayers🙏🏻
08 Aug 23 by member: lisadeavila67
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Snowie im so sad for the experiences you have and are currently living thru. Sadly im with davidsprincess. Your husband certainly doesn’t deserve you and you definitely dont deserve him. He’s a pile of crap going back many years it sounds like. Please place yourself first while you are still walking this earth. Praying you will experience some peace and know you will see your beloved children again one day. God bless you honey.
08 Aug 23 by member: Yearofhealth2023
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So very sorry for your losses! 😔 A husband that hits his wife is no man at all, but a cruel beast. Not sure how you can stand to be around him, you don’t deserve this! Prayers you can get help about that. May Jesus protect you, May He calm his anger.
08 Aug 23 by member: StormsGirl
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Snowhite, I love you so much. My heart grieves for your losses & your pain. You are not alone. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. Please don’t ever forget that. God did not create the covenant of marriage for the husband to abuse his wife. Husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the church. What your husband is doing is not love, it is not of God, and it is not covenant. I pray in agreement with SunnyDayTonya and everyone else that you are protected, you discover your value, worth, and identity are in Christ alone, not anything your husband says. I pray you accept the strength and the resources that have been given to you by me in private messages and others on here have given you and to use those. You are not alone. You are loved.
08 Aug 23 by member: annamommy
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I think we all feel so badly for you and your circumstances! I love and agree with what annamommy said. God bless!🩷🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
08 Aug 23 by member: Diana 1234
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I'm so sorry for the pain you must feel losing two children is really not fair. I hope you do some things to have joy in your life. I wish you could find a way to remove yourself from the abuse at home, you may still have many years left in your life even at 82. You should by the grace of God enjoy them safe, secure, and emotionally healthy. Seek serenity and joy and your God will show you the path. I know you love your husband but you need to live and love yourself too and you need to be loved. Ask for help in your local community maybe church, support groups for battered woman, or allanon.
09 Aug 23 by member: Tuktusong
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Snow, I'm so sorry for your great loss and the pain that you've expienced. I can't say that I understand exactly how you feel, but I lost my 22 year old daughter during surgery so I know about grief and especially complicated grief. May God be with you 🙏💙🙏
09 Aug 23 by member: rcguenth
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